Have you ever wondered...

Have you ever wondered how life would be with a significant other? This post if of course aimed at those who are single, and is desperately looking(just a term, im not desperate) for the other halves of their life. Those single men, sadly, includes me.

But how hard is it to maintain a girlfriend?(provided you can find one) I'm sure no matter how they say males and females have equal rights now, somethings remain unchanged in the game of relationship. For instance, it is an unavoidable fact that boys would have to spend on girls, rather in outings and dinings, or on special occasions like valentine's, birthday, anniversaries, etc. . Sure girls would have to spend alot on guys too but then again if you really count, I stand strong on the fact that guys would pay more. However, would this be a barricade to a relationship? Would stingy men stay bachelors for life if they refuse to pay even for the meal they each shared on a romantic night out? Well, if I had to guess, I would say, depends. It depends wether it is true love between the dates or not. If it is, money is seriously, just a small bump. Maybe a quarrel or two will happen for money issues but nothing serious will occur, if its real of course. But if the love is there but not strong, then its hard to say if they would last long, or if they love money more than each other.

How about time? Like those who is just entering college and university, the last thing you would want is a distraction that keeps you away from the dream. Even though very disciplined individuals would be able to balance out between love and studies, nonetheless some time would be needed for studies(by some it could mean a whole lot, especially when exams are near). At that time, little or almost no communication will take place. At this point, relationships will be at their most fragile. Patience and commitment from both parties will be tested to their edge. Those who pass, would be great partners in life, and those who didn't, well its time to move on. Yeah, definitely, a relationship takes alot of time and cash.

But would one even care about those? Love is a powerful thing, so powerful, only those who have experienced it will know. I would not be able to explain it, because the only experience I had, is from TV dramas and movies(sad hor?). So for those who do know what love feels like, do comment and tell me what does love feels like. And how insignificant money and time is when your in love!