Sam beng wan sui sam yok yi

Lols! To all those who can speak cantonese or mandarin, and watches alot of TVB dramas, they would understand my title XD! Haha! Translated, it means the sickness arisen from the heart can only be cured by the heart itself XD! Meaning, if you have emotional discomfort, the only way to soothe the pain is by overcoming your problems or the emotions itself. Easier said than done right? Absolutely true! Besides learning, controlling emotions is also a life-long process for each and everyone of us. If you're good at controlling your emotions, it's good. Sadly, the majority of us doesn't have that ability and hence the young people these days are entering a realm of gloominess and sorrows. Christians believe in the 7 deadly sins, which are "Lust", "Gluttony", "Greed", "Sloth", "Wrath", "Envy", and "Pride". To be honest, I think everyone has these 7 deadly sins in us, and no matter how hard we try to improve ourselves by distancing ourselves from these sins, we just couldn't fully remove them from our life. If you think about it, most of the time we suffer negative emotions based on these 7 sins. For example, Girl A feels super angry at her bf as her bf is talking with his ex. That scenario is based on the envy sin. I'm sure without further examples, one can relate their negative emotions to at least one of the above sins.

Of course, not all the time we will feel negative emotions due to these sins. There can be many other factors too. One of the most obvious example will be guilt. Guilt is a very powerful emotion that makes every human humane. It is what's that keeping us on the right track if we have done something morally wrong. It is also something that will tell us to do something, or not do something, sometimes even before the thing happened. However, as good as guilt sounds, it may also sometimes just be poor pain in the ass. Like lets say if I broke a vase. I know my parents had forgiven me, and I know they truly mean it when they forgive me, yet I'm feeling unnecessary guilt, guilt that will only make me feel bad for the rest of the day without any beneficial traits at all. I know, when we feel guilty after doing something, we would naturally prevent ourselves from doing it again. But how often does that work, seriously? I can tell guilt doesn't really help when the temptation to do your "mistake" again is too strong. So after blabbering so much, I just want to say, sometimes we SHOULD just think positive and let the feelings pass us by. Because sometimes what you're feeling may just be an unnecessary feeling, and other times feeling like that doesn't benefit anybody in any ways. So stay positive instead. At least when you are happy, others will be happy too, and that IS beneficial to everybody.

Before I end, just a short note to my friend. Learn to say no, please don't give yourself excuses such as inexperienceness, natural biological responses and things like that. I know you can be logical and analytical, use it. Always control your feelings. Don't do something you know you won't feel nice about after doing it. After all, you have the power to make the choice, and every choice you make is irreversibly important to everyone.

Oh and if anyone wondered what does my title has anything to do with this post, it doesnt. Cuz I decided not to post wat i initially wanted to hahaha! nitez...it will be long before my next update